There is one thing I know: I am seriously disappointed by someone in my surrounding and ashamed.
Yes, it's difficult to have your kids growing up. But no one ever told you to have kids! When your daughter meets someone, you have to be supportive except if that someone is a dangerous asshole. But when you brag and swear by your daughter's intelligence, that she supposedly inherited from you, you must try to trust her and not consider her as a complete idiot who would go out with anyone.
Instead of encouraging her to find happiness, you act like a stupid racist white trash and forbid her of seeing the guy. You start acting completely paranoid. Your expression, your movements, the look in your eyes - everything wants to make your daughter throw up. You almost admit that you'd rather see her with a stupid fat dirty alchoholic asshole like the one you married and you escaped than with this guy who was very polite with you and very courteous. You threaten her to take her back to hell if she stays with this guy.
I would be ashamed of my own mother acting this way.
And I'd rather become sterile at the second than see/hear myself telling my kids what this woman has said. I'd rather die right now than later encourage my children to be racist and homophobic. But worse, encourage them to repeat the same mistake their mother did and that almost destroyed all their lives.
Yes, it's difficult to have your kids growing up. But no one ever told you to have kids! When your daughter meets someone, you have to be supportive except if that someone is a dangerous asshole. But when you brag and swear by your daughter's intelligence, that she supposedly inherited from you, you must try to trust her and not consider her as a complete idiot who would go out with anyone.
Instead of encouraging her to find happiness, you act like a stupid racist white trash and forbid her of seeing the guy. You start acting completely paranoid. Your expression, your movements, the look in your eyes - everything wants to make your daughter throw up. You almost admit that you'd rather see her with a stupid fat dirty alchoholic asshole like the one you married and you escaped than with this guy who was very polite with you and very courteous. You threaten her to take her back to hell if she stays with this guy.
I would be ashamed of my own mother acting this way.
And I'd rather become sterile at the second than see/hear myself telling my kids what this woman has said. I'd rather die right now than later encourage my children to be racist and homophobic. But worse, encourage them to repeat the same mistake their mother did and that almost destroyed all their lives.
